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Engaged for couples
The proposal, the guest list, the nerves and what marriage will actually change.
- What were you feeling in the seconds before the proposal actually happened? TRUTH
- Tell the proposal story from your side, including the parts I have never heard. DARE
- Did you know it was coming, honestly? TRUTH
- Write the first line of your vows right now and read it to me. DARE
- Which part of wedding planning are you quietly dreading? TRUTH
- Name ten guests off the top of your head and put each at a table. DARE
- Is there anyone on the guest list you would happily cut tonight? TRUTH
- Choose our first dance song and play the opening thirty seconds. DARE
- What does being married mean to you that being engaged does not? TRUTH
- Show me the wedding photo you have saved that you have never mentioned. DARE
- Has either of our parents said something about the wedding that stuck with you? TRUTH
- Cut three names from the guest list out loud, no explanation required. DARE
- Which wedding tradition do you want to skip entirely? TRUTH
- Book or reschedule one wedding task before this game finishes. DARE
- What are you most nervous about on the day itself? TRUTH
- Practise your vows face in the mirror while I watch you do it. DARE
- How much of our budget do you think is going to the wrong things? TRUTH
- Send a thank-you message to whoever has helped most with planning so far. DARE
- Did you imagine proposing, or being proposed to, differently than how it went? TRUTH
- Call one of our parents and ask them a single wedding question. DARE
- Who do you most want to see in the front row? TRUTH
- Describe your dream honeymoon morning in detail, weather included. DARE
- Is there a relative you are worried about on the day? TRUTH
- Choose the cake flavour now and refuse to reconsider it afterwards. DARE
- What do you want people to feel as they leave our wedding? TRUTH
- Text a friend the wedding date so it is finally official to somebody. DARE
- Which one of us will cry first, and be honest about it? TRUTH
- Give the toast you would want your closest friend to give about us. DARE
- What part of my family have you been slowly getting used to? TRUTH
- Write down the budget number you actually think we will land on. DARE
- Is there a moment from the engagement you wish you had handled better? TRUTH
- Draw the venue layout from memory and let me correct your mistakes. DARE
- What do you want our first dance to be, and why that song? TRUTH
- Pick one wedding tradition we are cancelling and announce it dramatically. DARE
- Are you more excited about the wedding or about the marriage? TRUTH
- Show me the ring and tell me how you chose it. DARE
- What is the one thing you refuse to compromise on for the day? TRUTH
- Say my first name with your surname, or yours with mine, out loud. DARE
- Have you started thinking about your vows, or have you been avoiding them? TRUTH
- Set a reminder for the planning task you have been putting off longest. DARE
- Who do you want to make a speech, and who should definitely not? TRUTH
- Rehearse walking down the aisle across this room, as slowly as you can. DARE
- What do you think will genuinely change between us once we are married? TRUTH
- Name every person who cried when we announced the engagement. DARE
- Is there pressure from either family that you have been absorbing alone? TRUTH
- Open our planning folder and delete one thing we do not need. DARE
- Which wedding you have attended would you happily copy? TRUTH
- Describe what you will be thinking as you see me for the first time. DARE
- What worries you about merging our money? TRUTH
- Pick a song that must be played at the reception and defend the choice. DARE
- Do you want a conversation about names, or have you already decided? TRUTH
- Write a one-line message to future us, to be opened on our first anniversary. DARE
- What is the first thing you want to do the morning after the wedding? TRUTH
- Choose the readings, or the words someone else will say, right now. DARE
- Which part of planning do you think I have been unfair about? TRUTH
- Practise introducing me as your husband or wife to an imaginary stranger. DARE
- Did anyone react to our news in a way that quietly bothered you? TRUTH
- Take a photograph of us good enough to send with the invitations. DARE
- What do you want our first year of marriage to look like? TRUTH
- List three things you want on the day no matter what else falls apart. DARE
- Is there a guest you are inviting purely out of obligation? TRUTH
- Tell me honestly what you will miss about being engaged. DARE
- What would you do if it rained on the entire day? TRUTH
- Plan the last hour of our wedding night out loud. DARE
- When did you first genuinely picture marrying me? TRUTH
- Name the first meal you want to cook as a married couple. DARE
- Are you worried about something you have decided not to mention to me? TRUTH
- Decide our honeymoon destination now and say it as though it is booked. DARE
- Which photograph from the day matters most to you before it even exists? TRUTH
- Write down what you want our home to look like after the wedding. DARE
- Is there something about weddings generally that you find slightly ridiculous? TRUTH
- Message one person we keep meaning to invite and invite them now. DARE
- What do you hope your speech makes people understand about us? TRUTH
- Read aloud the message you sent announcing our engagement. DARE
- How did you tell your closest friend that we were engaged? TRUTH
- Describe the exact moment you decided to ask, or to say yes. DARE
- What should we promise each other that will not appear in the vows? TRUTH
- Give me your honest ranking of the venues we looked at. DARE
- Is there a part of single life you will actually miss? TRUTH
- Set a date for our next planning session and put it in the calendar. DARE
- What has planning taught you about the way we handle stress together? TRUTH
- Take my hands and say one promise you intend to keep after the wedding. DARE
- Which decision have we already made that you secretly disagree with? TRUTH
- Decide what we are doing the night before, separately or together. DARE
- What does the ring mean to you when you look down at it? TRUTH
- Practise our first dance steps with me for one full minute. DARE
- Do you want the honeymoon restful or completely exhausting? TRUTH
- Name the three people who must give a speech, in the order they speak. DARE
- Whose opinion in either family do you think we weigh too heavily? TRUTH
- Work out the seating for the one difficult table, out loud. DARE
- What is the smallest detail of the day that you care most about? TRUTH
- Hand me your phone and let me read your wedding notes. DARE
- Does anything about being someone's husband or wife frighten you? TRUTH
- Say aloud the wedding worry you have been carrying privately. DARE
- Would you elope tomorrow if I agreed right now? TRUTH
- Pick out an outfit from your wardrobe for our engagement photos. DARE
- What do you want us to have sorted before the wedding day arrives? TRUTH
- Make a promise about how we will handle a disagreement on the day. DARE
- Which moment of the day do you most want to slow down and remember? TRUTH
- Tell me what you want the first line of my vows to say. DARE