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First months. Still learning each other's weird parts.
- At what point did you decide you actually wanted this to continue?
- Who was the first person you told about me?
- Are there parts of you I haven't met yet?
- How did you describe me to your closest friend that first week?
- Were you nervous before any of our early dates, and which one?
- Since we met, what surprised you most about how I live?
- Is there a label for us you're comfortable with, or not yet?
- Which of my messages did you overthink before replying?
- Are you someone who moves fast or slow, and is this normal for you?
- How much of your day do you want us to share?
- What would make you feel more secure about where this is going?
- Would you rather meet my parents soon, or wait a while?
- Which of your friends do you most want me to win over?
- Is there something about your family I should know before I meet them?
- Have you told anyone yet that we're exclusive?
- What's a habit of mine you're still deciding how you feel about?
- Was there someone else in the picture when we first started seeing each other?
- How do you usually know when you're ready to commit?
- What kind of space do you need when you're not with me?
- Which of my questions have felt too soon so far?
- Are we spending enough nights together, or too many for your taste?
- What's the first thing about me you told your family?
- Did anything I did early on almost make you walk away?
- How do you want us to handle our first real fight?
- Is there a routine of yours you'd rather I didn't disturb?
- What do you still want to learn about my background?
- Would you introduce me as your partner at a work event?
- Which part of dating me has been easier than you expected?
- Have you changed anything about your life since we met?
- At this point, what would you call us if a stranger asked?
- When did you first mention me to someone at work?
- Do you save our photos, or are they still just sitting in your camera roll?
- Tell me what you expected from me that first month?
- Was there a moment early on when you nearly texted me too much?
- Has anyone in your life already decided how they feel about me?
- Which of my friends have you found hardest to read so far?
- Would you rather we planned dates ahead or kept things loose?
- Did you look me up online before our first meeting?
- How do you feel about leaving things at my place?
- What pace feels right to you for meeting each other's families?
- Is there a holiday coming up that we should talk about now?
- Are you still keeping any apps or profiles open?
- Who in your family will ask the most uncomfortable questions about me?
- Could you tell me what you need to hear when you feel unsure?
- Which part of your life do you want to keep entirely yours for now?
- Do we text the right amount, or would you change it?
- Was there a specific thing I said that made you relax around me?
- Have you told your closest friend anything about me that would embarrass me?
- What would make our weekends together feel less like a performance?
- Am I meeting your expectations, or quietly rewriting them?
- When do you think we should swap keys, if ever?
- Is there a subject you're saving until we've been together longer?
- Which early date would you happily repeat exactly as it was?
- Did you ever consider cancelling on me at the last minute?
- Have your friends given you advice about me that you ignored?
- Tell me one thing you assumed about me that turned out wrong?
- Would you be comfortable if I posted a photo of us?
- How long does it usually take you to trust someone properly?
- Do you introduce me differently depending on who's asking?
- What does a serious relationship mean to you, in plain words?
- Was there someone you had to let down gently after meeting me?
- Which of my stories have you already retold to your friends?
- Are there any deal breakers I should know about before we go further?
- Has anything about me made you question your usual type?
- When you imagine us in a year, what's the first image?
- Did anything about my place surprise you the first time?
- Could you see yourself travelling with me soon, or is that too fast?
- What would you want me to do if your family didn't warm to me?
- Is there a pattern from your past you're actively trying not to repeat?
- Do you find it easier to be honest with me than with previous partners?
- Tell me how you like to be comforted, before I guess wrong?
- Which of my habits have you already started copying?
- Would you tell me straight away if you were losing interest?
- Have we skipped any conversation you think we should have had by now?
- What's a small thing I could do that would make you feel chosen?
- Am I easy to plan around, or do I make it complicated?
- Was there a specific night you realized this was becoming real?
- Which parts of your routine have already shifted because of me?
- Do you tell your family everything, or only the settled parts?
- When did you stop counting our dates?
- Is there anything about how I spend money that concerns you?
- Have you thought about how we'd handle living far apart for a while?
- What do you want me to know about your closest friendship?
- Did I misread any of your signals early on?
- Would you rather be surprised by plans or told everything in advance?
- Which of your past relationships lasted longest, and why did it end?
- Are you someone who needs daily contact or occasional deep conversations?
- How would you want us to introduce each other at a wedding?
- Do you already have a favourite version of my laugh?
- Tell me about a moment you almost said something and stopped yourself?
- What's the nicest thing anyone has said about us so far?
- Was meeting my friends easier or harder than you'd prepared for?
- Which of my interests are you genuinely curious about?
- Have you imagined what we'd argue about first?
- Am I allowed to be unimpressive around you yet?
- Would you like more time alone together, or more time in groups?
- Did anything about my background make you pause at first?
- What's one question you've wanted to ask me but thought was too early?
- Is there a name you call me only in your head?
- Do you think we're moving at the same speed?