Truth or Dare Couples

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Parents for couples

For couples raising kids, about the couple and not the children.

Play these instead
  1. When did we last have a conversation that was not about logistics? TRUTH
  2. Put both our phones in another room for the next fifteen minutes. DARE
  3. What did nobody warn you about that hit you hardest? TRUTH
  4. Arrange a sitter, a grandparent, or a swap for one evening this month. DARE
  5. Do you feel like I actually see how much you carry? TRUTH
  6. Tell me one thing I do well as a parent, with a specific example. DARE
  7. What part of who you were before kids do you miss most? TRUTH
  8. Pick a night this week that belongs to us and write it on the calendar. DARE
  9. When did you last feel like a couple rather than a crew? TRUTH
  10. Take over the morning routine tomorrow without me having to mention it. DARE
  11. Is there a moment from the early days you wish you had been more present for? TRUTH
  12. Name three things you loved about our life before the kids arrived. DARE
  13. What do you need from me on the hardest evenings? TRUTH
  14. Show me a photo of us from before and say what we did not know yet. DARE
  15. Which of us is better at asking for a break? TRUTH
  16. Send me a message right now the way you would have back then. DARE
  17. What have you been meaning to say when there is never a quiet minute? TRUTH
  18. Sit down and do not get up for five minutes, whatever happens. DARE
  19. Do you think we split the invisible load fairly, and be honest? TRUTH
  20. Write down one task you will take off my plate this week. DARE
  21. When did you last do something purely because you wanted to? TRUTH
  22. Plan a date that costs nothing and could happen at home tonight. DARE
  23. What do you think our kids notice about us as a couple? TRUTH
  24. Make us both a drink and sit outside with me for ten minutes. DARE
  25. Is there a kind of evening together you have been quietly craving? TRUTH
  26. Tell me the funniest thing that happened to you this week, in full. DARE
  27. What surprised you about me as a parent? TRUTH
  28. Pick one thing we will stop doing because neither of us enjoys it. DARE
  29. Do you ever miss how spontaneous the two of us used to be? TRUTH
  30. Hold my hand for a full minute without saying anything at all. DARE
  31. What would you do with an entire day alone in this house? TRUTH
  32. Choose a film we will genuinely finish and start it this weekend. DARE
  33. When did you last feel properly rested? TRUTH
  34. Set a weekly alarm for fifteen minutes that belong only to us. DARE
  35. Is there a part of the routine you wish I would take over completely? TRUTH
  36. Give me a two-sentence appreciation speech, out loud, right now. DARE
  37. What was the last thing that made us laugh properly together? TRUTH
  38. Message a friend you keep meaning to reach and make an actual plan. DARE
  39. Do you feel supported on the days when you have clearly had enough? TRUTH
  40. Turn the lights down and slow dance with me for one song. DARE
  41. Which of our old habits do you want back the most? TRUTH
  42. Say plainly one thing you need from me tomorrow. DARE
  43. What do you think I have quietly given up since we became parents? TRUTH
  44. Swap one of our usual jobs for a week and shake on it. DARE
  45. When we finally get time alone, what do you actually want to do with it? TRUTH
  46. List three places we want to go once life gets a little easier. DARE
  47. Is there something you have been handling alone that you should not be? TRUTH
  48. Describe our old Saturday mornings in detail and make me miss them. DARE
  49. What is the hardest thing about being the two of us right now? TRUTH
  50. Leave something for me to find tomorrow and do not tell me where. DARE
  51. Do you think we are kind to each other in front of the kids? TRUTH
  52. Choose the next thing we do purely for us and book it now. DARE
  53. What would a good weekend look like if we could design it ourselves? TRUTH
  54. Tell me about the version of me you fell for, in the present tense. DARE
  55. When did you last feel proud of us as a team? TRUTH
  56. Take a photograph of just the two of us, right now. DARE
  57. Is there a conversation the two of us keep postponing? TRUTH
  58. Decide who gets the next lie-in and say it out loud. DARE
  59. What do you wish I would notice without being told? TRUTH
  60. Write down one thing you want to do entirely alone this month. DARE
  61. Do you ever feel invisible in your own house? TRUTH
  62. Give me a compliment that has nothing to do with parenting. DARE
  63. Which of us needs the next night off more? TRUTH
  64. Order a meal this week that neither of us has to cook. DARE
  65. What did you imagine our family life would feel like? TRUTH
  66. Sit on the same side of the sofa for the rest of this game. DARE
  67. Is there something about my parenting you appreciate but never say? TRUTH
  68. Plan one hour tomorrow in which you do absolutely nothing useful. DARE
  69. When did you last flirt with me on purpose? TRUTH
  70. Name the last five songs you would put on a playlist for us. DARE
  71. What would help you most in the first hour after you get home? TRUTH
  72. Apologise for one small thing you never got around to apologising for. DARE
  73. Do you miss being able to finish a sentence without an interruption? TRUTH
  74. Tell me a story about us that I have somehow never heard. DARE
  75. What small change would make your mornings easier? TRUTH
  76. Agree a rule about phones at dinner and commit to it now. DARE
  77. Is there a friendship you have let slide that you want back? TRUTH
  78. Tidy one shared surface with me without either of us complaining. DARE
  79. When did you last feel like I chose you first? TRUTH
  80. Pick a weekend next month and block it out entirely. DARE
  81. What are you most looking forward to when they are older? TRUTH
  82. Give me a proper hug and count slowly to twenty out loud. DARE
  83. Do you worry we will not know each other once the house is quiet? TRUTH
  84. Tell me the nicest thing anyone has said about us as a couple. DARE
  85. What is the best decision the two of us have made as parents? TRUTH
  86. Write each other a short note to be read on a hard day. DARE
  87. Is there something you are scared to admit you find difficult? TRUTH
  88. Pick one room we will reclaim for adults and move one thing tonight. DARE
  89. What do you want our kids to see about how two people love each other? TRUTH
  90. Say what you want the next year of us to feel like. DARE
  91. When did you last have a whole uninterrupted conversation with me? TRUTH
  92. Put on the album we used to play constantly and let it run. DARE
  93. What would you want more of if we had one extra hour daily? TRUTH
  94. Look at our calendar and cancel one thing neither of us wants to do. DARE
  95. Do you ever feel like we are just passing each other in a hallway? TRUTH
  96. Ask me a question you have genuinely never asked me before. DARE
  97. What is one thing I do that still makes you feel looked after? TRUTH
  98. Promise one thing you will do for yourself this week and name the day. DARE
  99. Which part of your old life do you want back this year? TRUTH
  100. Make a plan for our next night out and send one message toward it. DARE