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Past & Exes for couples

Handle with care: history, firsts and old chapters.

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What's the first impression you had of me that turned out to be completely wrong?
Who was your first real crush and what happened?
What's a relationship rule you had before me that you dropped?
What did your friends say about me at the beginning?
What's something an ex taught you that you're grateful for?
Have you ever been dumped in a way that still makes you wince?
What's the shortest relationship you've had and why did it end?
Did you ever stay with someone longer than you should have?
What's a red flag you ignored once and would never ignore now?
What's the worst date you've ever been on?
Have you ever been in love with someone who didn't know?
What's something you did in a past relationship you'd never do again?
Were you talking to anyone else when we started?
What's the biggest lie you told early on to seem cooler?
Have you ever gone back to someone after swearing you wouldn't?
What's the most romantic thing anyone did for you before me?
Which of your exes would you least like to run into?
What's a fight from your past that taught you how to fight better?
Did you ever break someone's heart and know it?
What's the longest you've gone single by choice?
What's a habit from a past relationship you had to unlearn here?
Have you ever kept a gift from an ex?
When did you last check up on someone from your past?
What's the strangest way you've met someone?
What did your teenage self want in a partner that sounds ridiculous now?
What's the earliest sign you remember that something wasn't going to last?
Have you ever been jealous of one of my exes?
What's a version of your love life you're glad nobody filmed?
What did you promise yourself after your last breakup?
What's the nicest thing an ex ever said about you?
Who was the first person you ever said I love you to?
When did you first kiss someone, and was it as awkward as most?
Where did you go on your very first real date ever?
How old were you when you stopped believing your parents knew everything?
Did you have a phase in your twenties your friends still tease you about?
Tell me about the friend group that shaped you most as a teenager?
Which job did you hate so much you nearly quit on day one?
Have you ever moved to a city just to escape something?
Was there a teacher who changed the direction of your life?
Name the first concert you ever went to, and who took you?
Do you still speak to anyone from your childhood street?
Which apartment of yours would you move back into tomorrow?
If your teenage self met me, would they approve of us?
Were you popular, invisible, or somewhere confusing in between at school?
Describe the first time you lived entirely on your own?
Who did you idolize at fifteen, and does it embarrass you now?
When did you realize a relationship was over, long before you ended it?
How did your parents meet, and do you like the story?
Did you ever get into trouble your family still doesn't know about?
Is there a summer of your life you'd live again exactly as it was?
Tell me about the first heartbreak that genuinely surprised you?
Which friendship ended without a fight, just silence?
Have you ever stayed in a city because of one person?
Where did you imagine you'd be at this age, back then?
Was your first relationship healthy, and did you realize it at the time?
Name a possession from your childhood you wish you still had?
Do you remember the last thing a grandparent said to you?
Which of your old dreams did you abandon quietly rather than dramatically?
How much of who you are now was decided before twenty?
Did anyone ever warn you about someone and turn out to be right?
If you could sit at one family dinner from the past, which one?
Tell me about a risk you took young that you'd never repeat?
Who was your best friend at ten, and where are they now?
Were you closer to your mother or your father growing up, and why?
When did you first feel like a proper adult?
Which house from your past do you still walk through in dreams?
Have you ever lied about your history to someone you were dating?
Is there a phone number you can still recite from years ago?
Describe your bedroom at sixteen, walls and all?
Do you miss anyone you've chosen not to contact again?
How did you spend the year before we met, honestly?
Was there a moment your family changed and never went back?
Name a song that instantly returns you to one specific year?
Which of your early jobs taught you something you still use?
Did you ever want to be someone completely different from who you became?
Who broke your trust first, long before anyone romantic did?
If you reread your messages from that time, would you cringe or ache?
Tell me about a goodbye you didn't know was final?
Where were you living when you were happiest before us?
Have you ever returned to a place and found it much smaller?
When did you stop doing something you once loved, and why?
Which family tradition from your childhood do you secretly miss?
Do you think you were an easy child or a difficult one?
Was there a friend whose family you half belonged to?
Name a decision from five years ago that still shapes your days?
How did you handle being single before you met me?
Did your first love know what they were doing to you?
Which version of yourself would you least like me to have met?
Tell me about the first time you felt genuinely proud of yourself?
Were there years when nobody really knew where you were?
Do you keep anything from a previous chapter of your life hidden away?
Who did you write about in your diary most often?
If you could apologize to one person from your past, who gets it?
When did you last speak to your oldest friend?
Is there a place from your past you'd refuse to return to?
How different would your life be if one person hadn't left?
Which childhood fear followed you further into adulthood than it should have?
Did you grow up expecting more or less than you got?
Name something your family said about you that you spent years disproving?
Was there ever someone your family wanted for you that you refused?